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Originally posted by playa
my advice to anyone that have kids is to give the mother whatever she wants and keep the records of paying. avoid the courts at all costs.
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I'll have to disagree with you on that comment. My father-in-law had a child with his ex-wife and for many years, he paid his ex-wife nice money to take care of the child directly to her, not going through the courts.
Well, after many years of paying, his ex-wife got a bug up her ass and went to the courts and they made him pay the money all over again. He had all of the checks saved for proof, but the court said that since it didn't go through the court, that it doesn't count. I know that if I was him, I would've went down there and strangled the bitch.