very nice site
okie, here are some advices from me:
1. something wrong with your logo, this is should be number one in your list of changes on this site
2. move down friendfinder banner, for example try to get a square banner and place it in the left panel or maybe the same banner under your content.
anyway first thing on your site, must be your logotype!!!
3. BW topheader, isn't too sexy
good luck with your site