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the ability to DIVORCE OURSELVES from being drawn to the physical uniqueness of a woman and leaving ourselves, at least its been my experience, open to a woman's other qualities--the way she thinks, the way she argues, the way she strings her words together, etc.
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This was half of the reason why I married my ex-wife; the other half was that she was hot as hell.
I got into this biz after I got married and at the beginning, it drove my ex nuts. That is UNTIL I took her to one of the InterNext conventions in Vegas. There she got to see 2 things; 1) what the girls really looked like without Photoshop and airbrushing and 2) how I reacted to seeing naked and half-naked women everywhere. When she saw that I wasn't reduced to a drooling idiot (like she suspected I would be) then she understood that I wasn't into this biz to fulfill some missing need, that it was just a business. And she never had an issue with it again.
So has porn changed my view of women? No. But it did change my ex-wife's view. Not everything is as it seems
