19. How did you get the nickname "needybitch"?
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20. Why can't you handle it when people don't like you
Answer: I'd prefer it if everyone got along but the reality of it is that some people are just unhappy, unpleasant to be around, and nothings gonna change that. Therefore it
USED to really bother me when someone was unfriendly. Recently, a trusted friend told me something that shocked me,"it's OK for YOU to not like someone back." It was amazing, I had never actually thought about conciously NOT liking someone. After that I began to evaluate the people around me and realized that I don't like some of them. So I stopped making effort to build inroads to them or establish friendship where it was unwelcome. It was at that point that it didn't matter to me anymore how they felt about me. Drag it has to be like that but such is life. What a relief!
