You can continue if you would like. You're only reconfirming my belief that Freud had NO IDEA what he was on about.
The first dream could mean anything, including what you are evaluating it to mean. The point is that I haven't had it since I was about 12 and EVERY TIME after I had it, I got the flu. Really the flu. Home from school for 3 days, chucking up my guts, eating chicken soup...flu.
I have to disagree that the second dream indicates a profound unhappiness in my relationship because I am genuinely the happiest I have ever been. I DID have this dream before I was happy, but I still have it now from time to time. I am completely content in my life as it is. I'm about to celebrate my 3rd anniversary with my husband and our first child is due in January. I could understand and agree if there was some aspect of my relationship with which I was unhappy, but genuinely, there isn't. I've also read some research that says that dreams about past love/sex relationships have more to do with uncertainty in other aspects of life rather than your current relationship - usually job or financial stress.
Just adding fuel to the fire I suppose. I don't mean to contradict you, you've certainly done more reading and study than I have but I have always found Freud to be a load of crap.
