You can only get around the fees by not accepting the package, as far as I know. Never let anyone ship you crap from the US by UPS. They're a total rip-off with their brokerage fees.
There's a service near the Lacolle border crossing that'll accept delivery for you and store the package for $2 a day or something like that. I used to use them when I lived in Montreal. I'll try and find you the link.
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