Originally Posted by Dveron

I was pretty much the same way once like 3 or 4 years ago. Was very shy and introverted and pretty much felt the same way about Fri/Sat nights.

Anyway at some point right here you gotta say fuck it and get out there and start talking to people to build up your confidence and make you realise once you have some confidence people will fucking stop and listen to you.

I got a little puppy, cutest fucking thing around. Suddenly I would get stopped all the time by people to talk about this dog including cute chicks. I went to the dog park and would talk to anybody and everybody. There were cute chicks there too and talking about your dog is an easy opener. Anyway long story short I found myself getting more and more confident and was dating etc I just needed the catalyst.

Anyway I'm not suggesting you get a dog but you should do shit where you are around people like get some social hobbies so you can gain some confidence in yourself and become more comfortable with yourself. You won't get rid of your nerves entirely but you will get more control over them and not give a shit what some fucking chick on myspace might think of you so much when there are a billion more out there if it goes south.

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