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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
bausch is a woman, but it doesn't make any difference. in another thread she talks about how her boyfriend has some sort of paraniod schizo disorder where he thinks people are always after him and has apparently spent 1000's of her money trying to get cars cleaned to 'bugs'. very fucked up.
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whats tragic is that it doesn't matter. the alarm bells are going off all the time but there she is. and when she finally can't rationalize the merits of the relationship, she will probably break up with him... but the cycle will remain the same. the next guy will be no different.
i think relationships are based on individual needs. we find fulfillment of those needs in the other person. so her life will never improve until she gets help and changes the pattern. its almost funny when you think about it... a guy spits in her face, more than once and she just isn't sure if its acceptable behavior. obviously she knows its really far out there and no doubt, this isn't the only red flag.