I would have to say that I am in the perfect relationship right now. With my husband and the father of my children. I've been through a failed marriage, a few failed relationships..all because the men couldn't deal with me. I'm as bisexual as they get, and I'm a very open person, and you would be amazed how many men say "yeah that's great!' And then go totally freaky when they realize that once they "have" you, you don't become a showpiece they can brag about and stop being who you are. They tried to "Tone me down" because I was "too much" flirting with women all the time and whatnot..they wanted the image of being with a bi girl, but not the reality. Just when I thought all relationships were shit and that I never wanted to see a man again, I got the chance to meet someone in person who'd been my friend online for three years already. We played an online Multi User Dungeon together, and we'd been close friends for years. Never laid eyes on him though..
Then the game had a reunion, players were coming from all over the world to party for a week in Toronto, so I went. Joel kept telling me that he was interested in me, I told him about 500 different ways to fuck off and jump off a bridge, I didn't want a relationship. Well I'm glad he was persistant. The first minute we spent together it was like we'd been together forever, not love-wise but as friends and soul mates, and we've been together ever since.
A marriage and kids later... we're still happy, and totally confident and happy in our lifestyle. We swing, and it's great! We're business partners, we're life partners, and everything we do compliments the other. Hell, I even pick his girlfriends for him (share and share alike!).
Guess I'm one of the lucky ones, it's rare to see relationships working these days. Those of you that perservere in your relationships have my respect, it's a lot easier said than done!
