Originally Posted by Belinda

Lets get something straight. I DID NOT fuck spannow, i did not go to sac to fuck him. That has been the in past for months. I have only cheated on donny once in our relationship and tht was like 2 months into and it was with the guy i was seeing before donny, doesn't make it right but donny did forget to mention that later on he sent me back to the guys house so he could have sex with me cause it turned donny on.

People say and do hurtful things when they are hurting which is what the case was last night between Donny and I. He was hurting as were I and that clouded judgment. In the 6 years donny and I have been together, all of them were great except the last year. Many people are to blame for that including myself and I will take respponsibilty for that.

Now lets all just move on and enjoy the holidays, huh.!

Originally Posted by S P A N N O W

Not that this is anyone's business, however, Donny (like an angry child) is threatening to "reveal" very private matters that should have remained private.

Back in the day Belinda and I began seeing each other at Donny's request. For whatever reason he enjoyed watching her be taken by a man. The understanding was that "we're all adults here and understand the risks." Apparently Belinda and I were the only one's who understood those risks as things didnt turn out the way Donny had hoped. Now in addition to persistent tantrum throwing he is attempting to destroy her career and reputation as well as mine. What he will never understand is that the key to conflict resolution is rational logic and compassion not adolescent bullying of a woman. Some time has past since then and Donny is evidently unable to deal with the reality he has created and the consequences of his decisions. "Be careful what you wish for - you just might get..." - words to live by.

There's the "big drama" he's hinting at folks. Now what dumbass?!