Pleasurepays

all of that has nothing to do with the discussions or issues. what "used to be acceptable" has nothing to do with today (this assumes of course, that you have freed your negro slaves and stopped sacrificing virgins to the volcano gods... if not, you might want to brush up on current legislation that might require you to make some adjustments in your lifestyle)

all people concerned know the boundaries of appropriate and innapropriate behavior as commonly accepted in the year 2007. further, there is law. all parties concerned know what the law is. all parties are fully aware that they are breaking the law. all parties know they are breaking the law with significant risk of being caught/arrested - further, most are not surprised at all that they are being arrested. all parties know that it is completely unnacceptable to troll chat rooms, looking for 13 year old girls who say "my parents are away from teh weekend" which is promptly followed up with "i'll come right over with booze and condoms so i can burry my cock in your hairless snatch" - then actually show up and through the entire process demonstrate intent to break the law on many levels.