VooD:
My girl is 20 - in college, she has done the same exact fucking thing with me; 4 times.
It's hell, and like iwantchixx said; sometimes you gotta deal with that to see what the outcome will be.
I'll give you what I used to ease my mind about the situation the last time it happened to me. Go to
www.askmen.com and really read a lot of the dating advice articles on there. It's a lot of very insightful stuff and it's kind of empowering to hear from a psychologist about how fucked up women just naturally can be.
If you wanna B.S. about it, you know the ICQ.