maxpower, I might be able to help you out. Might. Unlike so many others, I'll be straight-up and honest when I say that I may not be able to provide what you need but I'd be willing to hear what you have to say. I presently don't run any adult websites outside of my software label (
http://www.digitalsatin.com/) but I've got about 10 years of web programming (including 8 as a professional) experience under my belt. The majority of my work when I was pro was corporate intranets and presence pages for various stock agents, my last "real" adult site was in 1998 when I sold exclusive adult content that I shot myself. English is my native language. I can show you previous works if you'd like, and I can assure you that "cookie cutter" is not in my vocabulary when it comes to web design...nothing I hate more than a boring-ass website design we've all seen ten thousand times before. If you want to talk, my email is dave AT nodtveidt DOT net and I can be reached on ICQ as well (though I'm usually N/A).