Yes. In it now. She is bi-polar type 1. She has slit her wrists, cheated, been violent, etc. And yes, the sex is unbelievable! We were in an exclusive relationship and she lived with me until 2 weeks ago when I found out she cheated back in december. I put her out not because of the ACT of cheating but because of who it was with (a "friend" of mine who basically dape-raped her), her lies to cover it up, and because of her PROJECTING her guilt onto me. She was constatly testing me and trying to make ME the bad guy to rationalize her unfailfull behaviour. She has now been down-graded to a fuck buddy I see once a week as long a she remains in THERAPY! She is in an intensive out-patient program. She also may be borderline.
Few points I will offer:
1. Separate her "medical" issues from her personality issues and learn to act accordingly. If she is simply being a brat, bust her on it and escalate her into the sack and sex her like there's no tomorrow. That will solve that.
If she is acting out due to either a manic or depressed cycle, you have to address it differently. This is what I'm learning to do now.
2. Man up and lead her emotionally. This is what she needs more than anything. Don't take anything she says seriously, take what she DOES and REACTS to instead.
3. Get yourself back in the game and meet other women. You don't have to fuck them but you need to be on top of your game in case it doesn't work out. You don't want to be sitting at home alone wacking off to porn after a break up with a bi-polar chick because as I wrote above, the sex is always GREAT with these types of chicks. Hope this helps man! I feel ya pain!
