I dated a woman who was bi-polar and manic depressive... let me just say, yes it is very difficult. They appear to be selfish and needy sometimes and other times, want to be all about the other person. I think sometimes meds don't help. Yes, both are more likely to occur for a lot of women at some point in their lives. I know, I have had battles of depression in my life, and it's not fun. I guess it depends how much will power they have to notice it's a problem and try to conduct themselves differently in situations. I wouldn't run either if you're in love with her, but at the same time, don't think you have to stay b/c you think she can't handle it. Think it over really well. Sit down and talk to her. Communication can clear a lot of the air. Because you don't know how she is really feeling, you're just taking it personal.
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