Originally Posted by jimnally

Well I (Ally) have an opinion on this subject being a former member of a sugar daddy site myself in the past. I met alot of you at internext in Miami and those who did would say I am far from being a gold digging whore. My experience with the sugar daddy sites are the members on those dating sites are much more open minded like those of us in the industry and less uptight than normal dating sites. With most dating sites, you experience childish mind games leading up to a disappointing ending with Bubba from that small town in Ga with half his teeth. On the Sd sites you are upfront with expectations from the start. Every man likes to be treated like a king just as every woman wants to be pampered and spoiled. A sugar daddy is really just a generous boyfriend. How many men are married to Bonnie Sue who is a church going daddy's girl who stopped having sex with her husband years ago and started bitching about the garbage instead? How many women are still in college and maybe a single mom who needs a little extra cash or maybe a new little trinket they would not normally afford on their own?? A mutually beneficial relationship for both. Alot of busy and wealthy men do not have time or the desire to spend engaging in mind games and then the bullshit of developing a relationship. They find especially if they are looking for an extra marital affair that this relationship works out quite well for them. And in some, cases older or less attractive men can have that younger more attractive " arm candy" they would not normally get. Some men enjoy sharing the finer things in life and the women enjoy having that big, strong, protector and provider. As for me, I own my own business and didn't really need a sugar daddy but was tired of the mindset of normal dating sites. I can say I have dated my "sugardaddy" ( generous boyfriend) for over a year now and it is the most wonderful relationship I have ever had. The same goes for him..The arrangement worked out so well we have talked about starting up our own sugardaddy dating site. Anyways..That's my two cents!