Originally Posted by Tempest

She's in "lust" (not love) with the stud she's fucking... she may in fact "love" you though.. probably more as a friend or long term "husband" type material... So once she's got the lust out of her system she'll come crawling back to you... Dump her dude.... If she's doing it after a year, she'll do it again... And given you say you truly love her... she'll use that to keep you on a string while she finds some new guy she can lust after... cut your losses and deal with the pain now before it multiplies...

Originally Posted by StarkReality

No idea how old she is, but I'd tend to say 25- because this childish euphoric "fall in love with two guys" is more a teen thing.

Just take it as it is, dump her, and in a few weeks you'll be over it and life goes on as normal (yes, it fucking does, even if you wouldn't agree at the moment). Be happy that you found out before you invested even more time, had kids, married, etc.

Go on a "payback" tour through the clubs every weekend, fuck a dozen chicks , get drunk, whatever, but stop whining because it's useless and won't help you. It's over, out, end, don't let the illusion that it can be like before again fool you, it can't.

Be a man and don't make it worse by degrading yourself and behaving like an idiot !