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eg. he didn't tell me = he is a terrible liar...... etc. etc.
that is just so simplistic and wrong in my opinion and disregards so many possibilities and sensitivities
quoting Star Trek for interpersonal relation judgements was pretty funny too I thought lol
one thing I've noticed is the tendency to grasp onto dubious concepts in a relationship gone bad and blow them up and turn them into catastrophic end of the world concepts that justify in their minds how bad their partner is. (and makes them seem to relish sharing the information).
The bottom line is people grow apart, sometimes quickly, and if a relationship isn't working it is better to get away from each other and move on in a dignified matter.... attacking someone's character to everyone that will listen is just selfish and wrong.
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