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posted by a jap girl
That's true those kind of women exist here. For them, having a foreign(especially white, any white, or AMERICAN black) bf is just like having a designer's brand bag. They are just scoring those foreign men(mostly one-nighters, or vacation bf's) and show off them, cuz they think it's cool to have a Westerner as a bf. For them, any white or American black guys = movie stars or rock stars, and only the skin color or the nationality counts.
At the same time, there are stupid foreign guys who know the existence of those stupid Japanese women and they know where they can pick them up and enjoy sex with them, of course, they score the number of those stupid women and brag about it too. What a good balance of supply and demand!
However, NOT all of us Japanese are like them. They are just some percentages of the whole Japanese women and the NORMAL Japanese male/female look down upon and laugh at them.
Personally, I don't care what those people do, after all, that's their lives, not mine. But... There are also Japanese women who have a bf who just happens to be non-Japanese. They meet someone, and find him nice and fall in love with him, and he just happens to be non-Japanese. I don't want them to be thought one of those gaijin-chasers, cus they ARE different.
hanks to the rumore of those gaijin chasers and gaijin sex animals(who are never able to get a gf in their home country), those real lovers sometimes have a hard time in getting married, because their Japanese parents sometimes feel very worried like their relatives, neighbours, or friends might suspect their daughter could be one of those notorious women. They also feel worried like maybe the foreign bf of their daughter is only toying her.
We have some Phillipino trainees at work but not really anyone is interested in them in such a way, probably because they are Asian, dark skinned, and short. We sure have been getting along with them fine, but now I wonder
how they would be treated by us female workers if they were white. I don't really think any of the girls would try to get them like Roppongi gals (or whatever they are called) do, but some of us would at least feel like asking for their autographs, yeah, it's weird. The reason is , just like TheKillerMonkey san pointed out, that Japan isn't a very multi-cultural society and the difference between Western males and Japanese males is somehow attractive for us.
(I don't agree with him on what he said about Western males being more confident than Japanese ones though.)
I once saw a white guy bragging in an audio/video chat room that he was coming to Japan, and was expecting that his tallness and blond hair would attract all the Japanese gals and that he would be treated like a star.
However, he really was fat and had a thin and greasy blond hair, a total LOSER type guy in a sweaty and wrinkled T-shirt, and was sitting in a messy room (he was using a web cam and I could even see how messy (and must be stinky) his room was), and we could all guess he hadn't taken a shower for some time, yuuck!
We, at first, wondered how on earth such a dorky guy could think he would be treated like a star in Japan, but later on, suddenly remembered those stupid Japanese girls. He probably heard of the exaggerated rumore of the Japanese gaijin chasers and has got a fantasy of becoming popular among all the Japanese women. sigh...
Lastly, I would like to make sure one thing.
Just like I said not all the Japanese women are like them gaijin chasers, not all the foreign guys who have a Japanese girlfriend or a wife are the ones I just mentioned above.
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