Originally Posted by luv$

I may be the minority in saying this, and most likely flamed - but I have to say this as I have been hitting the pavement and hustling like a motherfucker trying to get this shit done right. So please forgive my representation from the other side.

What is wrong with saying you're not interested?

Why drop hints?

When I'm out and about if someone point-blank says they're not interested, I make a note of it and move on. Sometimes, depending on the tone of the conversation I will ask them why it is and what they suggest should be changed and then *maybe* down the line once I implement those changes I'll hit them up again.

Being 'annoying' is the negative result of persistence - problem is that some people can't take no for an answer (which can be admirable if the timing and the situation dictate it) and others have a problem being up front.


On the other hand when people hit me up I have no trouble saying no if I don't think it'll do well, why leave people hanging or string them along? It's counterproductive to both parties involved.