I say avoid it.
If you respect her, you should respect her ability to make her own choices, and if she's still with her husband, she obviously has made one.
If you involve yourself intimately there - you could be affecting that situation, and later on, neither of you will be able to sort out where her independent will on the matter ended and your meddling began.
If you hit it - assuming you make something monogamous from this - that'll doom the relationship - because she'll want to "find herself," and you'll realize you don't want to be with a woman that'd cheat on her husband.
Likewise, If you get rejected - your relationship with her will stagnate and whither because one or the other of you will never feel comfortable with both you and her husband in the same room.
But, then... I'm making generalizations and assumptions... I don't know enough about what you got going on to really call it.
Avoiding it's the path of least resistance, though - I'm sure... and is the best guarantee you'll both respect each other tomorrow.
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