01-22-2003, 05:57 PM
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So Fucking Banned
Join Date: Jun 2002
Posts: 2,640
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What Is his email? I will spam him some quality porno!! 
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Originally posted by RATBOY
I have spent all day on this board reading and laughing my ass off. Here's a quote:
Author: january
Date: 1/22/2003 3:07 pm EST
I just revisited my psychiatrist, who is not an expert in SA, but she told me in her experience she has seen esp. with women, that "if you have a gut feeling, it is probably true."
I am so sick, and tired. I discovered my H's interest in porn in 2002, but have handled everything poorly (gotten mad, etc.) My gut tells me he still views, but he says he doesn't. He DOES tell me though that viewing is not a problem, all men do it (then he ticks off names..."your dad did it, your brother, your son does it, that's why it's a billion dollar business, I don't abandon you and spend hours on the Internet like SAs do....")
Every week I "blip"...and we butt heads on whether or not he still views...his last admitted time was November on bus. trip. I won't bore you with the details on why I think he still views. Suffice to say I am sick, sick, sick that we can't resolve this, that he doesn't take my hand and either help ME get through this, or admit HE has a problem and get help. He told me I have a "self esteem problem". No, I think I have a problem with being 'lied' too, instead. How could this person who says he loves me, lie and put me through such hell?
I am looking for a couples counselor in the Seattle area... 
Any words of advice, or wisdom is appreciated. - January
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