Originally Posted by zand_stein

* Don't look at pictures or other things that remind you of her.
* Do not call her, write emails, letters, instant messages, text messages, etc.
* If she calls you or writes you in anyway, do not answer or reply.
* If you run into each other at the same place, leave if possible, or stay at the opposite end of wherever she is.
* Avoid her. There will be someone else in your love life who will make her seem like a stepping stone.
* No matter how much you may want to be friends, you have to make her or yourself the enemy. This may or may not be temporary, but it's necessary for this time being.