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"i was just about to post the exact same thing. amazing. an ex-girlfriend made me stop caring about everything
focus on whats important. many things in life are incidental and are of little consequence. spend as little time as you can on that stuff
ie family member getting hurt is important. drama over little stuff is energy-draining and causes loss of focus[/QUOTE]
so any relationship you have with a girl in the future will be made to suffer because of what you have been though with your ex? because you won't allow your own broken heart to mend? so you focus on work and success. in the end when you look back on your life who will you have had to share your memories with? your computer? lots of things in this life are important. i don't have the words to state exactly how i feel as it is still nebulas in my brain but i think some of your ideas are flawed.
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