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Three pieces of advice based on real life experience.
1. Don't plan on someone changing or you changing someone after you get married... especially trying to change them to be more like yourself. Accept people for who and what they are with all their flaws and if they are not compatible with yours it will NOT work. Contrary to popular belief by most men it's not about how good the sex is but how well the two of you communicate.
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2. Keep your opinions to yourself unless you are asked for them. The majority of ALL arguments in a relationship are caused by differing opinions. I love a good debate but please try to stick to some facts otherwise it's will just be another pissing match that leads to nowhere. You must learn how to agree to disagree.
3. Trust no one until they earn your trust! Too many times we trust people we don't even know based solely on their credentials. Doctors and mechanics are the worst to me. Don't try to tell me what's wrong based on who or what you are... show me some proof! This leads to what I have told my children... Don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see. That?s the reality of today?s world I hate to say.
Yes my friends these are the reality of things based on my personal experiences which are far reaching compared to most people I know. Take it for what it's worth and GOOD LUCK... if there is such a thing.
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