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Originally posted by Zoe_Zoebaboe
i think everyone is missing the point to what im asking.
Im not trying to continue relationships with chicks.
Im asking, that since we didnt discuss before me being with chicks was cheating, did I still "cheat" on him
Since I know he considers it cheating now it isnt going to happen again.
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Yes, I am afraid you did. In my opinion, at least. Each relationship can have its own standard. However, if you fail to communicate about those standards, then I guess you have to default to the lowest common denomenator. You didn't intentionally cheat on him, but you did intentionally muff-dive, which I would have to say counts as cheating in a relationship where it hasn't been agreed otherwise. Poly lifestyle, whatever you choose to call it, is about communication and agreement.