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Originally posted by Satan
I have been in this exact situation, the only difference was, we spoke about it FIRST.
I personaly don't consider it cheating, however by definition it is.
We came to an arrangement where she could do anything she wanted with another girl simply because it didn't bother me.
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In your relationship, it's not cheating, because there is no violation of your trust. You've established "boundaries" other than the traditional kind in a relationship. That's definitely the way this situation should be handled from the start.
I really don't think zoe's boyfriend would be pissed off about this if it were discussed with him beforehand, and they agreed on what was okay and what was not.