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Originally posted by Kimmykim
Perhaps it was cheating, perhaps not. If they havent been together long and the topic never came up, maybe it's not. If she deliberately avoided the topic then maybe it is.
Perhaps he seemed like he wouldn't mind and then he did. Of course he had to find out some way what happened, so who really knows what the underlying psychological motivations are in the relationship.
You think it's cheating ONLY if one partner has sex with someone else?
Would it bother you if your partner had a best friend, either same sex or opposite, that they shared more of their thoughts and feelings with than they did with you? Would that be cheating? Would it not?
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so if sleeping with other chicks never pops up in conversation I can sleep with another woman behind my girls back - just because it never came up???? hell fucking yes it's cheating! she had sex with another person! even if it's only in the clintonian sense. It's mildly retarded for her at best to think that fucking someone of the same sex isn't cheating.. I don't care how 'open minded' her last few boyfriends were. It's common fucking sense. an X chromosome doesn't change a goddamn thing.. so theres a little bit less hair around the mouth thats going down on you.. whoopdi fucking do.. it's like saying fucking a black man isn't cheating because he's "different".
CDsmith hit the nail on the head, being bi doesn't give you carte blanch to sleep with half of vegas, it just means theres double the potential monogamous-more-often-than-not partners.
and a "woman being able to offer another woman something a man can't.." puh-lease. what.. a smoother body? tits if you're into that as a chick? the allure of the forbidden?
bah. if your man can't give head as well as , or isn't as tender or whatever as another woman fucking teach him.