I'm not gonna read this whole thread because I'm sure this is Uber controversial, and I don't want to get upset any more today.
*IMO*
A relationship between two people should be defined by those two, and no one else.
If I have a boyfriend (or girlfriend) and they feel there is a level intimacy I could share with someone outside of our relationship that would be considered straying, then the two of us must discuss these boundaries and understand them, respect them, even fine~tune them, Together.
But NO ONE else can tell us what is right FOR US in OUR relationship.
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just a little bit naughty
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