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Originally posted by Carrie
I remember seeing the pics - the thread titles was something like "webmistress goes hardcore" or something like that.
Dufus, if you knew beforehand that she allegedly does all of this lying to other people such as Sykkboy and Cyberpunk, then why didn't that set off a red flag in your head? What makes you think that if she lies to them, she won't lie to you?
AND if you knew that she throws around the fake "bi" stuff for popularity's sake, why didn't you talk about this beforehand? Such as "hey hon what if you're at a party and someone calls you out on the bi stuff - what will you do?"
I'm not saying what she did was wrong or right - lying about it was of course wrong if she did that. But it's up to you two to determine what is "over the line" in your relationship and what you consider "wrong".
What I *am* saying is that you KNOW she is like this from the get-go; lying to other people and putting on a "bi" front she may have to back up one day which you wouldn't have been comfortable with... and you still stayed with her.
So you made your own bed, no use in getting pissed about it now. If you didn't take the time to talk about it beforehand and make it clear to her what *you* considered to be boundaries in the relationship, then there is NO use getting pissed when she crosses a boundary she didn't know was there.
Since getting into this biz and seeing what goes on at these parties, hubby and I have taken the time to talk about what is and isn't "okay" and where our boundaries are.
If you don't communicate, you've got no one to blame but YOURSELF.
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Yes Doofus, it's all your fault. When your girlfriend cheats on you and then lies about it, it's always the guy's fault no matter what. You should ask her for her forgiveness Doofus, learn from your mistakes you've made here, and never speak of this again.
Right. Good one Carrie.
