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Originally posted by Carrie
I remember seeing the pics - the thread titles was something like "webmistress goes hardcore" or something like that.
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Dufus, if you knew beforehand that she allegedly does all of this lying to other people such as Sykkboy and Cyberpunk, then why didn't that set off a red flag in your head? What makes you think that if she lies to them, she won't lie to you?
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The shit she lied about was to her family, about what she does for a job, and where she goes when she goes out (with me). She still lives at home, so cant reveal any of her life. Thats the only lies I knew about, and those are understandable. Now, I've found out about a bunch of other stuff, so its not like I knew beforehand.
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AND if you knew that she throws around the fake "bi" stuff for popularity's sake, why didn't you talk about this beforehand? Such as "hey hon what if you're at a party and someone calls you out on the bi stuff - what will you do?"
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We DID talk about it, she ISNT bi, and cheating IS cheating. So, your wrong on EVERY count. Get your facts straight.
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I'm not saying what she did was wrong or right - lying about it was of course wrong if she did that. But it's up to you two to determine what is "over the line" in your relationship and what you consider "wrong".
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Of course its wrong, NOT just the lying. Im sick of this flexible morality. blech
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What I *am* saying is that you KNOW she is like this from the get-go; lying to other people and putting on a "bi" front she may have to back up one day which you wouldn't have been comfortable with... and you still stayed with her.
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I shouldnt have to ask my girlfriend, "hey, since you've messed around with a few girls in your past, um, hey! what happens if your at a porn party, and somebody wants you to just go at it and dyke out with a pornstar. what happens?"
Because she and I HAD discussed it.
Zoe: "Can I see other people? I dont want you to see others... I dont want to but I wanna know what our relationship is"
Doofus:" No way, I wont do it, you wont do it. No guys, no girls"
Zoe:"OK, good, thats the way I want it too sweetie!"
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So you made your own bed, no use in getting pissed about it now. If you didn't take the time to talk about it beforehand and make it clear to her what *you* considered to be boundaries in the relationship, then there is NO use getting pissed when she crosses a boundary she didn't know was there.
If you don't communicate, you've got no one to blame but YOURSELF. [/B]
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She lied to all of you about that. We DID talk about it.
That is the stupiest fucking post on this thread so far.