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Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
So sorry to hear that man.
All I can suggest is to spend time with him, even it is not possible to communicate with him. Perhaps in some non-verbal way he will be comforted.
Also, remember him as he was. Hold his hand, stroke his hair, and let him know the love you feel for him. At the least this can be a catharsis for you if he indeed passes, that you made sure that you did all you could to make sure that he knew what you felt about him.
I've had to live with people in my life that I love dying, and it is never easy. The most important lesson for your own life, is to then focus more attention everyday on what makes you happy, because you may never know what day will be your last.
I hope this helps...
Be strong,
ADG
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I make sure to go spend time with him as much as possible and when I'm there I always hole his hand and talk to him. Yesterday he was the one that grabbed my hand and he held it tight. He wouldn't let go and I didn't want him to anyway.
I keep telling him that I love him so he knows that I want him to get better so we can spend even more time together. His one wish was, if something like this was to ever happen he want all of us (my sister, brother and I) to be there with him till the end so he wouldn't die alone. As hard as it is for me to be in this situation I will be there with him even if it means I have to see him suffering.
If he does pass, at least he will go knowing that his kids were there and love him. I will be an emotional wreck just like I an right now, but I will still be there with him.