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Originally Posted by TheLegacy
Being truly gay means that sex isn?t always an option ? it is more than physical. I have seen gay couples who have lived together for over 20 years, and truly love each other as a straight couple. One where the partner died of AID?s as the other one watched, holding his hand as he passed on. It wasn?t about sex at all ? it was about commitment to another soul ? a human being. The physical aspect was not the primary reason they were together.
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I'm going backwards here. This is an excellent point. I work for a company that often features straight guys having sex with other straight or gay men. Sex is an activity and an activity that feels good, but that's not what makes a person gay or straight. Your sexual orientation is all about who you find attractive, who gets you hot. You can have sex with every woman you meet and never touch a guy because you want to be straight, but you know if you are honestly and deeply attracted to men or women. The same way you can be a straight man who enjoys an occasional blowjob from a buddy, just for the fact that it feels good. That doesn't make you gay. It goes so much further than sex.