Originally Posted by TheLegacy

Being truly gay means that sex isn?t always an option ? it is more than physical. I have seen gay couples who have lived together for over 20 years, and truly love each other as a straight couple. One where the partner died of AID?s as the other one watched, holding his hand as he passed on. It wasn?t about sex at all ? it was about commitment to another soul ? a human being. The physical aspect was not the primary reason they were together.

So no - my marriage is not a front at all. I was married before to a stripper who left me for a DJ. I certainly didn?t want to get into another relationship much less marriage. When SheDevil came along she was totally into women ? never figuring she would love a man at all. Yet in saying that, it was our souls that connected in a strong way. I totally felt at peace with the idea of living my life with her, as she did with me. In some cosmic way it worked, and we just knew.