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Originally Posted by BoyAlley
Apparently you've not done a very good job building trust in your relationship.
Perhaps not going, and not making a big deal out of not going, would be a good start to demonstrate your priorities to her.
From there, you can work on building mutual trust so things like this aren't an issue in the future.
That is assuming, of course, she is actually a priority to you, and that you are actually trustworthy. 
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Fuck that, do what you want to do and if she has a problem with it tell her to take a hike
The only thing that will build is a control relationship in her favor.