Here are some of our whitelabels that webmasters are using:
www.brookeskyevod.com (MayorsMoney)
www.videoboxondemand.com (VideoBox)
http://hdmovies.wl.yappo.com/index.php (One of Python's)
www.onlymoviesvod.com (OnlyMovies)
We can create you a header or you can supply one and we'll have your WL ready in no time!
As for our WL and HotMovies WL looking similar, while I think we both have great products, I see a big difference in the layout and look of our WLs.
Hit me up if you are interested ...
kristin @ yappodollars.com
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