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READ THIS:
I promise you.... You may think you have maybe 4 best friends... maybe 1 off them is a real friend... if even that.
Ive known hundreds of people... i go out in town and i "know" half the town...
BUT, i dont have any real friends. I have some close ones but they are not 100%...
Example: last couple of years i spend a lot of time with a group of 4 guys, ... i was the "new" guy in the group and those 3 were like THE best friends, their view anyway... but when the others were not around they all have something bad to say about the others, How they hate that, and blabla he is so fucking annoying. He got so fuckin ugly teeth, etc...
and you know talk shit and laughing at the others flaws n shit., telling the others secrets and stuff... When i stopped drinking i stopped hanging out with those guys... and they are still "best friends" with each other... strange you may think... BUT IVE SEEN THIS IN EVERY GROUP OF FRIENDS I EVER ENGAGED.... and ive had so many interests so i always had "friends" in different type of groups... and ive seen so much shit between FRIENDS... that i dont think the type of BEST FRIEND some people in this thread are describing exists...
YOU MAY SAY YOU HAVE A BEST FRIEND, BUT THINK ABOUT IT, BE HONEST TO YOURSELF, IS THAT PERSON REALLY A BEST FRIEND?... many people live with denial with this... cause they really dont wanna see the BEST FRIEND that they had for 10-20 years for what he/she really is... they just feel glad they have a best friend and neglect every bad shit about them. BUT HEY... thats human.
And almost EVERYONE talk shit... i honestly only known 1 guy, that NEVER said a bad word of anyone of his friends. If other people talk shit about someone he doesnt say anything, and he is the only one i could share a secret with and really trust him not telling anyone.
Too bad that alcohol and videogames is his biggest passion in life... cause that shit drags you down
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