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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays
the issue for most men is that the law also supports the mothers attempts to entrap the father... i.e. the woman that blew a guy in california, ran to the bathroom and inseminated herself and won a claim for child support. the law supports denying the fathers rights as a parent. the law doesn't require the mother to account for how money is being spent or to insure its being spent on the child etc etc etc etc etc etc.
the entire system is backwards and unfair to men. i am not saying that a man should have no obligation... but the system should be a little more balanced.. and the system shouldn't be encouraging women to have child out of wedlock
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You are preaching to the choir here. I agree 100% that things should be FAIR. I also think that the FIRST measure should be what is fair to the CHILD not what is fair to the mother or father. After the child's needs are taken care of, then the parents' needs come in to play, and as long as both are safe and sane people, they should have 50/50 custody and split costs equitably.