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Old 10-25-2008, 08:23 PM  
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Originally Posted by sltr View Post
i can tell you this with complete certainty- if YOU remove those kids that dope fiend sister of yours will blame EVERYTHING on you. period.
i've seen it happen many many times.

dope fiends and alcoholics are the only people i know that can be laying in the gutter, covered in filth, doped out of their minds and pointing their fucking finger at YOU blaming you for everything they've lost.

it's called denial and all addicts are well-versed at it.
So then what would your suggestion be as far as getting the kids away from them? Just suck it up and take the blame? I would like to think that even if they lay the blame on one of us during the process, they will eventually be able to see clearly and understand that everything we have done (and will do in the future) was done only out of love. But I also know that won't happen until/unless they clean themselves up first.

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here's a link to the online version of the big book of alcoholics anonymous, please- you seriously need to read this.

http://www.aa.org/bigbookonline/en_tableofcnt.cfm
Thank you for the link - I will definitely read this.
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