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Old 10-25-2008, 08:44 PM  
baddog
So Fucking Banned
 
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Originally Posted by Missy View Post
. . . We (as a family) feel like if we cut them off completely they will only have the wrong people to turn to for support during those times of weakness when they actually DO acknowledge that there IS a problem..
It is called tough love. It is called enabling. Sorry.

I am watching someone [another enabler] deal with the beginning stages of acceptance for the last few months.

It is really difficult to feel sorry for them since they allowing themselves to be used.
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