Every thing that I found and tried SUCKS. So I use FLV with the embed. Works like a charm and the program will add in a link.
Check out this video
http://www.strictlybigtits.com/category/massive-tits/
scroll down to this video "Massive tits like these don?t swing" Start the video playing, and then click on the video again. In a new tab or window it will open the site with the ref code.