Hello Mike,
Well lots of excellent choices both on your short list and in this thread. First suggestion if this is for an adult site make sure that you choose a host that is really adult friendly and secondly I think that in most cases, even if your site is mainstream that the long time established adult hosts can still deliver a better environment in many cases for you to work from.
All that said I would certainly like you to consider
Caro.Net ! Our network has been up and running since 1995 and we have been the network home to AEBN since they came online.
Hit me up directly as we have some great specials coming online or even if you just have any general questions in regards to hosting.
Thanks in advance and good luck with your search.
