i think you are been from the start joust to agressive and that way basicly you would not making any friends or partners at GFY and this is the normal reaction to it
I would recommend to you not trying to do all by yourself, for example you really need to pay some bucks for header and design.
Choose really your right Niche. If your going for Big Tits why is there one chest flatered in the entry page ?
If i was you i would have started with some Blogs, because after craking of with your 2257 I think you can do best writting .
GOOD LUCK