Originally Posted by Mrs F.U.B.A.R.

this makes the assumption that your loved one doesn't understand your situation.... not all women are like that... most do understand (if you will at least talk to them about your problems) and are willing to work with you to get to a better place. After all sharing your life means sharing the good and the bad times. Your life is what you will make of it and while money will buy comfort it won't buy happiness.