I run a legit tube site, that accepts uploads though nothing real-amateur and nothing that even looks stolen ... infact I only approve 20 a day so if you submit something that even pricks our hairs or doesn't look like its promoting a paysite you don't get a listing. We have a good and solid list of companies who dont want their content on tubes too. Basically doing everything we can do, short of going partner only to stop assholes uploading stolen clips (and the thought has crossed my mind)
When writing to a tube site asking to have "your videos" taken down it helps if you let us know which videos are "yours" and maybe even your program/site name. Most honest tube sites can filter your sites out quite easily. Just a thought. The only thing I can do when you ask to have "all your videos" removed without giving me details is to delete all videos and that would disadvantage those who are making sales off our traffic.
For every program that doesn't want their content on our site there are 10 who do, so we aren't losing anything by having you opt out, and actually welcome you opting out
Cheers !
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