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Eh. It's life. And I'm young... and most couples shouldn't be up each other's ass 24/7 anyways.. well, unless lube is involved.. ;)
And it's not a maturity issue.. if I had a maturity issue, I'd whine and stomp my feet until she was put in a home... and hold my breath and say the marriage was OVER until he put her into one... But I understand that she would be MISERABLE in assisted living.. and probably is too old for assisted living.. and she'd be required to go to a nursing home..
She is a cunt. She is mean. Despite her being a stay at home mom, all 4 children are BORKED in the head. Hubby included... with serious detachment issues. None of them have a "motherly" bond.. because she has no idea what motherly is... NONE. It doesn't live in her. She associates all emotions and caringness with getting a reward...
She showed up to my husband's 3rd grade birthday party with cupcakes for the class.... then when he didn't BRING ANY HOME... he got grounded for not thinking of her... Just weird mental mind games from this woman...
And financially, I don't want her money. When she goes, it can all go to the other siblings as far as I'm concerned... even though we did take care of her... I'd rather reap the karma of not throwing her crotchedy ass in a home.. than the money.
Now, if she's still living in 2-3 years.. when I'm ready to be traveling the world... moving...
I may have to rethink motives of marriage and taking care of her.. but as of right now.. as long as the mean bitch is comfortable.. it's okay. Literally, if we put her in a home... they'd probably want her kicked out... that's how unfriendly she is. So this is best for her final years...
And dude she has a SET UP.. we have dual TVs.. she's in two bedrooms hooked up with a hollywood bath in between... both have Pioneer Elite plasmas on the wall... and she has her Bose headsets hooked up to each.. for when it's a movie or something she doesn't want to blast too loud to hear... She's got an auto recliner... and auto sofa/recliner.... freaking chenille pajamas... and we give her whatever she wants for dinner.... Most old people are just fed whatever the family is cooking or whatever the family is doing...
MOST old people are just forgotten in a home somewhere... but we take her thoughts into consideration..
Oh, and... for Christmas.. I set up her living room as this ginormous aerogrow room (seriously, aerogrow has to think we're pot growers for ordering 3 of these bastards at once)... and I arrange them all.. planted them... and now she has these plants to tend with...
As much as I hate her.. as much as she is a cunt... as much as I rant... as shitty as she makes our life... I'm not just throwing her in a home and forgetting about her... Maybe on her deathbed she'll see that people actually care for her.. for her.... not for some ulterior motive.
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