Originally Posted by jakethedog

This is where I would like to insert my past experience by saying ..
make a check list of things you really need to have out in the open with your wife to be .. go through all the possible scenarios prior to even starting up a serious relationship .. try it all out for a few yrs .. make sure she is on the level and has the same interests, hobbies and sexual intentions .. then and only then give it a try .. but all that said .. things change hugely once your married .. and everything you worked hard to put into place almost always goes by the wayside .. bottom line .. Marriage and serious relationships are about commitment and sacrifice ... no and if's or buts about it .. if your not ready and in love enough to accept that .. your not ready to be married .. just my opinion ..