TO the men who are unhappy...
Does your wife have low self esteem? No outlet for herself?
Very few women are just natural cunts... A lot are just cunts because they hate something about themselves... then point the finger at you...
And also to whoever said opposites attrack.. THEY MOST DEFINITELY Do..
I'm type A personality. Work all the time. Talk all the time. Positive. Bouncy. Giggly. Always on the go hyper... Ambitious as fuck.
He's VERY chill... not like toking it up or sucking on a bong chill.. but close...
I find that women who never find themselves.. or their "calling" are miserable in marriages... and slowly start to give less and less..
Luckily hubby and I made it through my "finding myself" years...
But some women never do... and just become bitter and sad.
And then the men rebel against this activity.. and stop trying..
My best marriage advice...
GIVE YOUR ALL for 2 weeks. Wake up in the morning and think, "What can I do to make my significant other happy.."
Do it for 2 weeks.
Even if you have to fake it.
Whether it be cleaning... going to their restaurants... faking like you're listening... good sex... do it. Give in for 2 weeks.
If your partner doesn't start reciprocating after two weeks...
It's over.
Get a divorce.
Usually there's a stalemate.. both stop trying.. and the only way to break out of it.. is for one to suck up their pride... and start trying again.. and if it triggers a chain reaction.. GREAT.. if not.. get the fuck out of the relationship and find someone worthwhile...
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