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Originally Posted by quantum-x
Dude, you're posting for advice on GFY.
Everyone here, seriously or otherwise is providing input that you asked for.
Everyone is in accord that your situation is not desirable.
We are only going off the information you provided. The way you spun it sounds exactly like the way Anna summarised it.
We're roughly the same age. This should be a period in your life where you're forging new paths, not collecting baggage.
Take that piece of advice with as gravity as the rest of the pieces of advice here.
Your life, your situation, but complaining due to exasperation, and then attempting to justify the fucked up situation is, frankly, self-destructive.
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So I reread the stuff I wrote and AnniKN has still misread what I wrote and took it wrong.
I also asked for ways to make someone stop being a klepto, not a psycho analysis, or the advice to just ditch him and forget about him.
A therapist saying "So where you abused as a child?" has nothing to do with him wanting to steal stupid shit constantly...
Also what's my age have to do with me actually being a responsibly person and helping my girlfriend with her family problems related to her brother?
By your logic I should, at the age of 24, be saying "fuck this shit, you're family's whack!" and ditch my girlfriend, the one I love for who she is, not for what I want, and plan on spending my time with, because her brother is a little twerp? Come on, seriously.