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Originally Posted by Raf1
never been because I wouldn't be comfortable with it. I was just curious what kind of crowd comes to these parties
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I can't speak for clubs everywhere but our club here in NC is a nice clean environment with a great mix of people and there are definitely some very sexy couples that attend. We have an on-premises club that is 15,000 square feet. Here are some pics:
http://www.carolinafriends.com/album/
Over this winter they have made a ton of improvements and we haven't updated the pictures yet... but they should give you an idea of what the club looks like.
On friday nights they allow single men... so the crowd tends to be a bit smaller. Usually 60-90 couples. On saturday night it's couples and single ladies only... average attendance is usually 150-180 couples. On holiday weekends that number is more like 250-300 couples. We also have hotel takeover events 4-5 times a year and 500-600 couples attend those (at least here in Charlotte).
The people that attend come from all walks of life but I would say that there are many more financially stable people than average income people in general. Many are business owners or professionals.
Alot of "vanilla" people (this is a term that swingers use to describe people who are not swingers) have misconceptions about what swinging is... and there are also alot of swingers that cause this misconception because they have a narrow mind about the lifestyle in general. Our club has alot of active swingers... but it is rarely an orgy type of situation like the big mainstream paysites portray. The most common sexual activity is purely between couples in our club.
Everyone is not the same... but I enjoy watching my wife get fucked while she is eating pussy and I am getting blown by the girl she is eating out. Our sex life has improved 1000% and there is no doubt about that... but the biggest benefit has been the change in our relationship in general. We really don't have any secrets... we have great communication and there is no jealousy whatsoever. It's refreshing... I have to tell you... people are always bitching about marriage... well, I couldn't possibly feel anymore free. My life is awesome and there is no doubt. I think I am the luckiest and happiest man alive.